The Transition of Women

The Changing World of Wo hands As a daughter living in a strict environment and living in a conventional ways, things get a little rough. My set out is center of the household, so essenti eachy everything he affirms goes. In the western conception its usually the separate way around, its usually both the parents that declare a range in things. In my society(Muslim society) my mother has a say in zero point unless my father asks. My mother is an excellent mother but she mustnt say anything or it would be considered not being a good wife.As I get older I am always dreading the twenty-four hours I am asked to be married. I know times have changed but I have a major dilemma. Am I going to marry or continue my educational activity? The problem is I like turn everyplaceing with medicine and I want to further my education by going to college. But that requires a minimum of six old age university attendance and if I want more degrees that another five years. nearly of my medi cal friends that are females married and had children while they were studying in college.I dont want that to be me. I want to very finish virtuallything I start. My father isnt exactly helping me with the situation. He hates the fact that I want to work. In his case, women are not hypothetic to work unnecessarily if their husbands can provide for them(or their fathers can provide for them if their not married), but in a place like Saudi Arabia where men and women dont mix at work, working just enhances the listen and makes one wiser to the ways of the world.In my mothers opinion, women become better companions to their husbands who should be more understanding and supportive. I feel that rather of being selfish, we can work out ways that help us be good mothers, wives and in like manner continue with our needs of life. If education is one such need, then thither are ways to acquire it without causing disturbance. I think my father needs to catch up with the rest of the Muslim world instead of staying in the traditional ways.He said when I finish or if I finish my medical school he would refuse allowance to let me work in a hospital. I guess some things will never change. The only person this dilemma is affecting is me. No one else has to go through my challenge of being a women over coming these obstacles but me. Hopefully their will be other women that line in my foot steps and make a difference for all women or at least try. Women have come a pertinacious way but they are coming up in the world and no one can stop us.